Thursday, August 8, 2013

Celibacy

Bible Questions Answered:
“We have a debate, did or did not Jesus require celibacy to be a disciple....”
Audrianna/ Perth, Australia (Western Australia)

Bible Answer:
No!

Not much is known concerning the domestic life of the disciples, but some is known.

Peter, was a married man!

Matthew 8:14,15 NLT
14 When Jesus arrived at Peter’s house, Peter’s mother-in-law was sick in bed with a high fever.
15 But when Jesus touched her hand, the fever left her. Then she got up and prepared a meal for Him.

Early Church Tradition has it, that Bartholomew, was the “bridegroom,” at the wedding at Cana.

John 2:1,2 KJV
1 And the third day there was a marriage in Cana of Galilee; and the mother of Jesus was there:
2 And both Jesus was called, and His disciples, to the marriage.

Matthew 10:2-4 KJV
2 Now the names of the twelve apostles are these; The first, Simon, who is called Peter, and Andrew his brother; James the son of Zebedee, and John his brother;
3 Philip, and Bartholomew; Thomas, and Matthew the publican; James the son of Alphaeus, and Lebbaeus, whose surname was Thaddaeus;
4 Simon the Canaanite, and Judas Iscariot, who also betrayed Him.

Clement of Alexandria (Titus Flavius Clemens - 150-215 A.D.)
Clement was a Christian theologian. Clement in his writings states that Philip had a wife and children.

It is assumed, that the other disciples were unmarried.

No, our Lord, never commanded celibacy, matter of fact the Apostle Paul, warned about those who do.

I Timothy 4:1-5 KJV
1 Now The Spirit speaketh expressly, that in the latter times some shall depart from the faith, giving heed to seducing spirits, and doctrines of devils;
2 Speaking lies in hypocrisy; having their conscience seared with a hot iron;
3 Forbidding to marry, and commanding to abstain from meats, which God hath created to be received with thanksgiving of them which believe and know The Truth.
4 For every creature of God is good, and nothing to be refused, if it be received with thanksgiving:
5 For it is sanctified by The Word Of God and prayer.

I Timothy 3:1,2 NLT (Office of Deacon)
1 This is a trustworthy saying: “If someone aspires to be an elder, he desires an honorable position.”
2 So an elder must be a man whose life is above reproach. He must be faithful to his wife. He must exercise self-control, live wisely, and have a good reputation. He must enjoy having guests in his home, and he must be able to teach.

Titus 1:6-7 NLT
6 An elder must live a blameless life. He must be faithful to his wife, and his children must be believers who don’t have a reputation for being wild or rebellious.
7 An elder is a manager of God’s household, so he must live a blameless life..."

I Corinthians 9: 3-5 NLT (The Apostle Paul.)
3 This is my answer to those who question my authority.
4 Don’t we have the right to live in your homes and share your meals?
5 Don’t we have the right to bring a Christian wife with us as the other apostles and The Lord’s brothers do, and as Peter does?

Our Lord's words.....

Matthew 19:11,12 MSG (Jesus Christ)

But Jesus said, “Not everyone is mature enough to live a married life. It requires a certain aptitude and grace. Marriage isn’t for everyone. Some, from birth seemingly, never give marriage a thought. Others never get asked—or accepted. And some decide not to get married for kingdom reasons. But if you’re capable of growing into the largeness of marriage, do it.”